Children have hidden scar's caused by parents

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Emotional and verbal abuse are much harder to detect than physical abuse, but it can be just as harmful. An emotionally abusive parent may put down a child on a regular basis. For example, they may call the child “stupid” for getting a poor grade. In abusive families, these types of comments happen on a regular basis and leave a child feeling worthless.


Do you agree that parents cause pain or leave scar's on their children's lives with just words not noticing the damage they caused? 
Again, how can one overcome that pain? 

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  1. AnonymousMay 21, 2022 at 1:45 AM

    Many children suffers from this pain that is hidden by fake smiles even if you can tell the parent about what he/she is doing, they say you are disrespectful... One can overcome that pain by moving away from such parents

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    1. AnonymousMay 23, 2022 at 11:44 AM

      A lot of children are unfortunate enough to go through this kind of emotional damage because of their parent's offhanded and seemingly harmless comments. I was often compared to other kids by my Dad growing up and that made me feel inadequate but I'm lucky enough to have parents who listened to me and stopped downplaying my worth with words after I told them I hated that. Words have more leverage over people than we think. Be a kind human and always put yourself in others shoes. Express your displeasure at being unfairly critisized and don't be afraid to stand up for yourself lest you start believing you're truly worthless as a human being.

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  2. Max de GeneralMay 21, 2022 at 5:56 AM

    Children should express their pain to their parents ...so they can notice their hidden pain. Parents sometimes says things without noticing the impact

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  3. AnonymousMay 21, 2022 at 6:04 AM

    Children should try to reach out to other people than bottling things

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  4. Sandra WandileMay 21, 2022 at 11:16 PM

    I'm one of the children who are abused by parents 💔 no matter how I try to get help or confront them about my pain they just say it's adolescents stage while I'm in pain or it's because my pain is hidden?

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  5. PhuthehangMay 22, 2022 at 4:57 AM

    Parents are sometimes the main reason for their children's pain🤞I'm speaking from experience,,,it's been five years now still fighting depression that was caused by my parents however they were not even aware that I'm going through that so that's why I would advise children to be open with their parents and tell them about what's bothering them

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  6. AnonymousMay 22, 2022 at 7:31 AM

    Can overcome it by being open about it and seek help

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  7. Mpani Thoahlane May 23, 2022 at 2:47 AM

    Yes I agree, children can overcome the pain by listening to the words of encouragement from the psychologist

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  8. AnonymousMay 23, 2022 at 11:55 AM

    Yes most definitely parents hurt their children so much children receive so much criticism from parents and insults hurtful words that svsr them forever and all of this is done in the name of love and reprimands. Children can try and reach an adult who gets them or whom they have a close relationship with to try and reach out to their parents and make realise their faults in overall communication is key

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  9. prettyMay 23, 2022 at 2:08 PM

    True, emotional abusive parents hurt their children in every possible way. A lot of children growing in households full of favoritism experience this kind of abuse. Some parents compare children and that cause personal conflict and rejection to the ones who are being belittled. For example some parents compare their children's capabilities and intelligence, the ones who are viewed as failures are not taken into consideration & that makes them feel unloved and excluded.
    Affected children can reach out for help by talking to professional people who can listen & help with whatever they are facing.

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  10. AnonymousMay 31, 2022 at 2:54 AM

    I'm one of the children who are suffering from pain caused by their parents

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